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Workaholics Anonymous is a fellowship of individuals who share
their experience, strength, and hope with each other that they may
solve their common problems and help others to recover from workaholism.
The only requirement for membership is the
desire to stop working compulsively. There are no dues or fees
for WA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions.
WA is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization
or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither
endorses not opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stop
working compulsively and to carry the message of recovery to
workaholics who still suffer.
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How
Do I Know If I'm a Workaholic?
The
Twelve Steps of Workaholics Anonymous
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We
admitted we were powerless over work --- that
our lives had become unmanageable. |
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Came
to believe that a power greater than ourselves
could restore us to sanity. |
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Made
a decision to turn our will and our lives over
to the care of God as we understand God. . |
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Made
a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. |
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Admitted
to God, to our selves, and to another human being
the exact nature of our wrongs. |
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Were
entirely ready to have God remove all these defects
of character. |
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Humbly
asked God to remove our shortcomings. |
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Made
a list of all persons we had harmed and became
willing to make amends to them all. |
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Made
direct amends to such people wherever possible,
except when to do so would injure them or others. |
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Continued
to take personal inventory and, when we were wrong,
promptly admitted it. |
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Sought
through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious
contact with God, as we understand God, praying
only for knowledge of God's will for us and the
power to carry it out. |
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Having
had a spiritual awakening as the result of these
steps, we tried to carry this message to workaholics,
and to practice these principles in all our affairs. |
The
W.A. Twelve Steps were adapted
from the Twelve Steps of
Alcoholics Anonymous. Reprinted by permission of the
Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc. Steps and
Traditions copyright © 1939 by A.A. World Services.
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Other
Tools of Recovery
- Listening
We
set aside time each day for prayer and meditation.
Before accepting any commitments, we ask our Higher
Power and friends for guidance.
Prioritizing
We
decide which are the most important things to do first.
Sometimes that may mean doing nothing. We strive to
stay flexible to events, reorganizing our priorities
as needed. We view interruptions and accidents as opportunities
for growth.
Substituting
We do not add a new activity without eliminating from our schedule one that
demands equivalent time and energy.
Underscheduling
We allow more time than we think we need for a task or trip, allowing a comfortable
margin to accommodate the unexpected.
Playing
We schedule time for play, refusing to let ourselves work non-stop. We do not
make our play into a work project.
Concentrating
We try to do one thing at a time.
Pacing
We work at a comfortable pace and rest before we get tired. To remind
ourselves, we check our level of energy before proceeding to our next activity.
We do not get "wound up" in our work so we do not have to unwind.
Relaxing
We do not yield to pressure or attempt to pressure others. We remain alert
to the people and situations that trigger pressure in us. We become aware of
our own actions, words body sensations and feelings that tell us we're responding
with pressure. When we feel tension, we stop to reconnect to our Higher Power
and others around us.
Accepting
We accept the outcomes of our endeavors, whatever the results, whatever the
timing. We know that impatience, rushing, and insisting on perfect results
only slow down our recovery. We are gentle with our efforts knowing that our
new way of living requires much practice.
Asking
We admit our weaknesses and mistakes, and ask our Higher Power and others for
help.
Meetings
We attend W.A. meetings to learn how the fellowship works and to share our
experience, strength and hope with each other.
Telephoning
We use the phone to stay in contact with other members of the fellowship between
meetings. we communicate with our W.A. friends before and after a critical
task.
Balancing
We balance our work involvement with efforts to develop personal relationships,
spiritual growth, creativity and playful attitudes.
Serving
We readily extend help to other workaholics, knowing that assistance to others
adds to the quality of our own recovery.
Living
in the Now
We realize we are where our Higher Power wants us to be --- in the here and
now. We try to live each moment with serenity, joy and gratitude.
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